For many thirtysomethings growing up, I think our parents encouraged our educational goals with the idea that we have a ‘fall back.’ In case our grandiose dreams did not work out, we should have a job or career that we could fall back on.

You know what I mean, teaching credentials, law degrees, computer programming.

The truth of the matter is, however, I don’t really think there are any fall back careers.

While we’ve been out pursuing our own thing — folks who’ve chosen these careers have gone for it. By the time we come back to pursue our fall back options — the price of poker has gone up — way up.

Teachers already have their credentials and teaching experience under their belt. Our ‘fall back’ options are teaching underprivileged kids in undesirable locations.

Lawyers have been out building their practices. Law firms want to know what you’ve been doing when not dedicating your life to law. Hang out a shingle? Not unless you have some money for a heavy investment in infrastructure — and no, paying clients aren’t quite knocking down your doors.

Computer programming, systems analysts. Did we mention that the world has changed since you were in the game — did we mention the explosion of the World Wide Web? You’re an expert at C++ or Cobol while companies are looking for XML or Flash experts.

Fall back options aren’t really options at all. It’s like saving your fat clothes after you lose weight — not a good idea.

Maybe the old adage is right — do what you love, the money will follow.